It's "The Lacks" ... lack of sleep, lack of personal time, lack of sex. Though I, myself, had these lacks, and do at present, I'm not depressed. Merely annoyed as all get out... It is a big change and likely most noticeable after the first pregnancy. I would dispute this has any similarities to phantom pregnancies because this is more about a sudden change in lifestyle that affects the body and therefore has an affect on the psyche. Phantom pregnancies occur before the birth and are because the father is f(#%ed up. |