Louann Brizendine, whose book, The Male Brain, explains that it's only natural that men should oogle women.  We, men that is, are genetically predisposed to ogling women and we do it five times faster than our conscious mind.  Meaning, we've already looked before we know we shouldn't have looked. http://www.thestar.com/living/.....tural-reflex-for-men

This is junk science. Even for junk science, it's bad. Brizendine is bad. Gotta love how scientific studies on goldfish extrapolate to men...

Don't scientists always test on animals and then extrapolate their results onto humans?  Do you think that as animals too, with really old parts (in evolutionary terms) of the brain, we aren't still affected by those parts of the brain to some degree?

I don't feel the need to apologize for oggling... if someone didn't want to be oggled, then they shouldn't have placed themselves in a public setting and crossed my vision.  It offends ME that women feel I have no right to oggle them.. stop being where I'm looking and I'll stop oggling!  It's a cart before the horse situation.. I wouldn't oggle if you were there in the first place (or at the least, if you were wearing a parka, I would have been less inclined to oggle)...

Now ACTING on oggling.. well I'd apologize for that if it was unwarranted.  LOOKING is my right, cat calling, a**-spanking, asking for phone number or just plain spanking it there in public - sure that's mostly uncalled for and I would probably apologize for that.  "Sorry miss, didn't mean to spill my seed all across you.. but you DO look good in that dress (well did before the mess..)"